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43 Scriptures on Dating and Courtship

by Mia

In the Christian faith, dating and courtship are viewed through a lens of purity, respect, and commitment. Scripture provides guidance for those seeking to form relationships that honor God and align with biblical principles. While the Bible doesn’t provide explicit instructions on modern dating, it gives clear principles for how we should treat one another and seek God’s will in relationships.

This article explores 43 Bible verses that can offer wisdom and direction in the areas of dating and courtship, focusing on love, respect, purity, and the pursuit of a God-centered relationship.

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1. Genesis 2:18 – God’s Plan for Relationships

“The Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.'”

God’s creation of man and woman reflects His design for relationships. Courtship and dating are opportunities to build a strong relationship based on partnership, respect, and love.

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2. Proverbs 3:5-6 – Trust in God

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”

In dating, trusting God to lead your decisions is vital. This verse reminds us to seek God’s guidance in all aspects of our lives, including relationships.

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3. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 – Defining Love

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

A relationship built on these principles of love will grow in strength and purity. Love should be kind, patient, and not based on selfish desires.

4. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 – Flee From Immorality

“Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.”

This passage emphasizes the importance of maintaining purity in relationships. Christians are called to honor God by guarding their bodies and avoiding sexual immorality.

5. 2 Corinthians 6:14 – Unequally Yoked

“Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?”

It’s important to date and eventually marry someone who shares your faith. This verse encourages believers to avoid forming close relationships with those who do not follow Christ.

6. Song of Solomon 2:7 – Waiting for the Right Time

“Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.”

This verse speaks to the importance of waiting for the right time in a relationship, respecting both personal boundaries and the timing that God has for each individual.

7. Romans 13:10 – Love Fulfills the Law

“Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.”

In dating and courtship, love is the foundation. Treating others with respect, kindness, and thoughtfulness fulfills God’s commandments.

8. Ephesians 5:25 – Husbands Love Your Wives

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”

This verse sets a standard for how men should love their future wives. It is sacrificial, unconditional love, and it teaches the value of selflessness in courtship.

9. Colossians 3:14 – Love Above All

“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”

Love is the most important virtue to display in any relationship. It unites and strengthens individuals, making all other virtues flourish.

10. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 – Live Pure Lives

“It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God.”

This passage encourages believers to maintain purity and holiness, not giving in to the pressures of the world around them but living a life that honors God.

11. Matthew 22:39 – Love Your Neighbor

“And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.'”

In any relationship, treating others as we would like to be treated is crucial. This principle should guide how we interact in both dating and courtship.

12. 1 Peter 3:7 – Honor Your Partner

“Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.”

Respect in relationships is fundamental. This verse emphasizes the importance of honoring and valuing your partner, which applies to dating as well as marriage.

13. Proverbs 4:23 – Guard Your Heart

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”

This wisdom encourages individuals to protect their hearts, ensuring that relationships are formed on a foundation of love and respect rather than selfishness or lust.

14. Proverbs 27:17 – Iron Sharpens Iron

“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”

A relationship should be one where both individuals encourage each other to grow spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. This mutual support strengthens the relationship.

15. Hebrews 13:4 – Marriage Should Be Honored

“Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.”

Courtship should ultimately lead to marriage, and both parties should honor this sacred institution. Maintaining purity and honor in relationships is essential.

16. Galatians 5:22-23 – Fruit of the Spirit

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things, there is no law.”

A healthy relationship will reflect the fruit of the Spirit. These virtues guide how we treat each other in dating and courtship.

17. Matthew 7:7 – Ask and You Shall Receive

“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.”

In matters of relationships, it’s essential to pray and seek God’s will. This scripture encourages individuals to trust God for the right relationship.

18. James 1:5 – Seek Wisdom

“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.”

Wisdom is necessary when making decisions about dating and relationships. Seek God for guidance and understanding in every step of your relationship.

19. 1 John 4:19 – Love One Another

“We love because he first loved us.”

In dating and courtship, love is rooted in the love that God has shown us. Our relationships should mirror His love for us.

20. Romans 12:10 – Be Devoted to One Another

“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”

In relationships, selflessness is key. Showing honor and devotion to your partner fosters mutual respect and deepens the connection.

21. Proverbs 18:22 – Finding a Good Spouse

“He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.”

Marriage is a blessing, and finding a good spouse is a sign of God’s favor. Courtship should lead to finding a partner who honors God.

22. Philippians 4:8 – Think on Pure Things

“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”

In relationships, focus on purity, excellence, and godliness. Guard your thoughts and actions to reflect Christ-like behavior.

23. Titus 2:6-8 – Live in Purity

“Similarly, encourage the young men to be self-controlled. In everything set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness, and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned.”

Young people in courtship should exhibit self-control, integrity, and godliness in their actions and words.

24. 1 Timothy 5:1-2 – Treat Each Other with Respect

“Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father. Treat younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity.”

This verse reminds us to treat all people, especially those in relationships, with respect and purity, acknowledging the importance of honor and integrity.

25. Proverbs 16:3 – Commit Your Plans to God

“Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.”

When starting a new relationship or moving forward in a courtship, commit your plans to God. Trust Him with the outcome and seek His will.

26. Romans 12:2 – Be Transformed by the Renewing of Your Mind

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing, and perfect will.”

In a dating or courtship relationship, allow God to transform your thoughts, behaviors, and desires so that your relationship reflects His will.

27. 1 Peter 4:8 – Love Deeply

“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”

Love is powerful and forgiving. In relationships, show deep love that extends grace and mercy to one another.

28. Proverbs 31:10 – A Virtuous Woman

“A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.”

This verse emphasizes the value of a virtuous woman, encouraging men to seek a partner of godly character.

29. Romans 15:7 – Accept One Another

“Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God.”

In dating and courtship, mutual acceptance and understanding are vital. Just as Christ accepted us, we should accept each other with love.

30. Matthew 6:33 – Seek God First

“But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”

Prioritize God and His kingdom over relationships. When you do so, He will bless your relationships according to His will.

31. Psalm 37:4 – Delight in the Lord

“Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.”

When we delight in God, He aligns our desires with His perfect will, including in the area of relationships.

32. Philippians 2:3 – Do Nothing Out of Selfishness

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”

In any relationship, selflessness is key. Always value and consider the needs of your partner.

33. Isaiah 55:9 – God’s Ways Are Higher

“As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.”

God’s ways are higher than our own. Trust that He knows the best path for your relationship, even when it may differ from your plans.

34. Jeremiah 29:11 – God’s Plan for Your Future

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.”

God has a beautiful plan for your life, including your relationship and courtship. Trust His timing and plan.

35. Luke 6:31 – The Golden Rule

“Do to others as you would have them do to you.”

The Golden Rule is central to every relationship. Treat others with the same respect and care you wish to receive.

36. Romans 8:28 – All Things Work Together for Good

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”

Even in challenges, trust that God is working everything together for your good, including your relationships.

37. Ephesians 4:2 – Be Humble in Relationships

“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.”

Humility and patience are vital in a relationship. Bearing with one another shows love and understanding.

38. Hebrews 10:24 – Spur One Another On

“And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.”

Encourage your partner in their spiritual walk and in doing good deeds. Mutual support strengthens relationships.

39. Luke 9:23 – Deny Yourself and Follow Christ

“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.”

Self-sacrifice and putting God first are crucial in dating and courtship. Follow Christ’s example in all things.

40. Psalm 23:1 – The Lord Is Our Shepherd

“The Lord is my shepherd; I lack nothing.”

Trusting God to guide your relationship leads to peace, knowing He will provide everything you need.

41. 2 Timothy 2:22 – Flee Youthful Passions

“Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.”

Pursue purity and righteousness in relationships. Avoid temptation and strive for godly living.

42. Matthew 5:8 – Purity of Heart

“Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.”

Purity is essential in dating and courtship. Keep your heart and intentions pure to honor God.

43. Philippians 4:13 – Strength in Christ

“I can do all this through him who gives me strength.”

In the challenges of dating and courtship, remember that Christ strengthens us. He equips us for all the joys and trials that relationships bring.

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